Please show up with minty fresh breath, with no trace of smoke or alcohol.
Handling my donation in a discrete manner is both expected and appreciated.
If we are meeting in private, I ask that you leave my donation in an unmarked envelope in plain sight, upon my or your arrival.
If we are meeting in public, I prefer that you enclose my donation in a gift bag or inside a book, and is easily seen upon my arrival.
Make sure I don’t have to ask. It is awkward and breaks the mood.
If there’s a possibility that you would like to extend our time together, please be familiar with my rates as I do not discuss them in person.
My rates are for my time and companionship only.
My rates are non-negotiable. Any attempt to negotiate my rates either in person, via email or text, will result in the immediate and abrupt end to our communication our time together.
Deposits + Cancellations
All deposits are non-refundable and non-transferable to another date and time. In the very rare event that I need to cancel our meeting, you can rest assured that your deposit will be returned.
Deposits are sexy, typically necessary, and I am grateful to those who understand this.
Due to what is happening around the world, I now ask for 100% of our meeting fee to set aside our time together. If you are a new friend, I may consider a 50% deposit until mutual trust is built. Allow me to explain my reasoning. I have always limited my number of meetings, and now, for mutual safety reasons, I am limiting my meetings even more. If I accept a meeting it is spaced out appropriately for everyone’s safety. I get tested regularly, and cannot risk a cancellation since I only meet a few days a month. With that said, I would prefer a 100% deposit guarantee from you.
If you have placed a 50% deposit, you are still responsible for the remainder of the meeting fee if you cancel within 6 days of our set meeting date if I am flying into a town I do not reside in, or if our meeting is within 48 hours in the city I do reside in, and I appreciate this being forwarded promptly the same day as your cancellation.
If for any reason I cancel our meeting due to a fault that is not your own, rest assured that 100% of your deposit will be returned to you. I have not had to do this yet, nor expect too.
However, if you need to cancel, I would not be able to refund any of the meeting fee, nor carry it over to another meeting time or date.
You can trust that I am a reasonable and dependable person. I also know when someone is being tricky or flaky. If you are a person of integrity, you will notice the same from me.
If you do not show up for an online meeting, it cannot be transferred to another day.
I understand unexpected circumstances can arise, and while I strive to be lenient and understanding, a lot of preparation and planning goes into our time together so I appreciate your understanding of this Policy.